Jun 15, 2010

My Boyfriend Is Cheating On Me - How Can I Save Our Relationship

What can you do to save your relationship if you think your long time boyfriend is seeing another girl? There could be many reasons he is doing this and listed below are some of them. If you really care about him and love him then think hard about what may be your situation.

First thing to ask is have you done something yourself that may have angered him and caused him to stray on you? Have you done something to him or even not done that may have him give up on you?

How are your communication skills when you are together? Can the two of you carry on a good conversation together or is it hit and miss. The better a couple can communicate the better they can work out problems together. Being able to Communicate can be one of the best things a couple should work on.

To go hand in hand with communicating, how about listening. Do you listen with selective hearing? Paying attention when you want to is not good communication. If you don't pay attention to your boyfriend you may miss out on some important times together or you may miss out on some clues that something is wrong with the relationship. Of course this goes for him listening to you also.

Sometimes men may stray because they are not getting the attention they crave at home. They may meet another girl that gives them some admiration that they desire and it makes them feel special. If you have not been giving him the admiration he wants at home maybe you better rethink your way of treating him. Treat him like a man and you may find he would prefer to be with you.

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